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hrehughesx


Posts: 154 Location: Kent
I'm: Mum
Status: Maddison's mummy & TTC
 | Subject: do you regret having your baby young? Sun Oct 17, 2010 4:13 pm | |
| for me, in a way yes, and in a way no. i feel like i could of lived a lot more, as you're only young once! but then again, i've always wanted a family, and if i was to die tomorrow i'd rather go knowing i experienced having a child and being a mum, than going out with my friends and getting drunk alot, y'no? x __________________________ Hollie xo
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Mummy2LoggyBear


Posts: 35 Age: 21 Location: Grimsby
I'm: Mum
Status: Proud Mummy To Logan <3
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Thu Oct 28, 2010 9:59 am | |
| No there is nothing I regret about having my son young at all! I wont lie I went off the rails about when I was 12-14 years old, I did alot of my going out drinking then fortunatly at that time the pubs were really bad with realising who was underage and who wasnt. Just before I was 15 I found my husband, and everything changed I just wanted to be with him, and settle down. Ive got a great family to support me & my husband is brilliant! We have been together 5 years, when I was 17 we started ttc although I didnt fall until I was 18, I had my son 2 months before my 19th birthday, and he is such a blessing! I love spending every second of every day with him! I love being a mummy and would much rather be sat at home with my family than out in some nightclub wasting my money! IMO. We got married in August & our son is 8 months now, growing up so fast! Im glad I didnt fall straight away though, I think in those few months ttc it gave me chance to grow up, So im glad i didnt fall pregnant till I was 18, but id never want to of had my son any older, It just seems right for me Althoguh everyones opinions & times are different. We will be waiting a fair few years for baby number 2, but I still wouldnt change a thing  __________________________   by MummyBear2011, on Flickr">  "> |
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Lucy-May VIP trusted member


Posts: 3509 Age: 21 Location: Brum
I'm: Mum
Status: Dylan <3
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Thu Oct 28, 2010 11:57 am | |
| I read older mums are more likly to get PND cos there so used to living one way then it has to change, wereas young mums only no motherhood, if that makes sence, you dont miss what you never had. My mom was 20 when she had me, and now she has a masters in art and is a teacher. your life doesnt end having a baby, i wanna be a young mum, then once the kids are out the way, then i can concertrate on a career x xx __________________________ |
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megan_is_ttc


Posts: 1685 Age: 22 I'm: LTTTC (Long term Trying to conceive)
Status: TTC: 1 and a half years
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Rachael Elizabeth Moderator


Posts: 11905 Age: 22 Location: lσndσndєrrч
I'm: Mum
Status: mummч tσ jσrdαn mαrlєч + ríσ вlαkє
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Jazmin&Bradley


Posts: 18 Age: 20 Location: Witham essex
I'm: TTC (Trying to conceive)
Status: Mummy to my little boy Bradley!
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Thu Oct 28, 2010 3:24 pm | |
| I don't regret it at all, I've always said I would like to be a young mum, I was planning on having a baby around 21 year's old but fel pregnant while on the pill when I was 17, I was very immature an in those 9month's I've changed for the better, people can't believe how much I've grown up! I would like to go out once in a while but that never seem's to happen, mummy's need there break's but I never seem to get mine, I would like an other when Bradley is 2 so in about a year as he's nearly 1. It's nearly my 19th an plan to go out for a night an then be a kid for another night an go to a play area like go banana's for an adult's night!! Everyone need's to let loose every so often! But wouldn't change a thing  xx __________________________ Jazmin |
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jessmd89 VIP trusted member


Posts: 2169 Age: 22 Location: Scotland
I'm: Pregnant (Second Trimester)
Status: mummy to a monkey
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Thu Oct 28, 2010 3:30 pm | |
| i dont regret it but i would suggest to some people to wait, it is hard sitting thinking other girls my age are out having fun but i never really did that so i dont miss it lol i do miss being ill weird i know but i cant remember last time i was ill and being able to chill or relax try get over it lol i found out was expecting at 17 had him when i was 18 and tbh i dont think thats young now a days we are ttc number 2 now and i am 21. xx |
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evas_mammy Moderator


Posts: 3305 Age: 23 Location: West Midlands
I'm: Mum
Status: Mummy to Eva
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Thu Oct 28, 2010 3:51 pm | |
| I did at first. I was really stuggling with everything, not coping at all and felt like i'd given up too much too soon. I feel awful for even thinking that now. I actually went on a night out a few months after eva was born and was like "is this is?" I wasn't missing anything but my daughter so i went home at 10pm. I look at FB status's on a saturday morning and i am 100% happy that i am not in that state. I much prefere to snuggle up on the sofa watching peppa pig or running round all day after a happy little toddler. When she is 18, i'll be 38 and still young enough to go out and party till the early hours.
__________________________ eva'ann "i love you to the moon & back" 3 years old ♥
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Maddie Moderator


Posts: 6121 Age: 23 Location: Southampton
I'm: Mum
Status: mum & ttc no.2
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Fri Oct 29, 2010 5:37 pm | |
| No. i love my boy and i love being a mummy. i was 21 when he was born and i was in my second year at uni. it did mean i missed a lot of uni that year and had to repeat, but that was because i was ill and had a lot of complications with the pregnancy. but i love the fact that i'm a young mum. and i know my parents love it too. they both said they love that they are young enough to play with josh and spend time with him. i'm still at uni, i'm still getting my degree and i still have friends, granted not all the same ones from before i was pregnant, but still people who love me!i love my life now, and i love my boys. i'd much rather be a mummy and be getting up at stupid o clock in the morning because Josh wants a cuddle than to be throwing up and stumbling in at 4am and not being able to remember the night! __________________________ Maddie Alice Louise Watts 23 | wife | mummy ..♥.. Joshua William Alexander Watts | 11 January 2O1O my amazing little boy. so proud to be his mummy ..♥.. Rob Watts | 27 august 2OO6 together 5 years & 8 months | married O6 august 2O11
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Mostar Moderator


Posts: 883 Age: 26 Location: Manchester
I'm: Mum
Status: Me my son david daughter katie fiancee james xxx
 | Subject: Re: do you regret having your baby young? Fri Oct 29, 2010 11:16 pm | |
| Nope not one bit i fell preg with him wen i was just 15.. He is 8 now n not a day goes by tht i regret the age i had him love him to bits... Xxxx __________________________  I'm a mummy of 2 my son: David stephen peter robinson 29/11/02/ 8lb 10oz my daughter: katie grace connor 05/05/11/ 7lb 9oz  engaged to my oh james connor for 4 years! the love of my life   [url=http://lilypie.com]  [/url [url=http://daisypath.com]  [/url |
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