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Lacey-Beths Mummy
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 | | Subject: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 3:51 pm | |
| I was at the mental health clinic this morning for an assessment due to the doctors saying i have bipolar and with my moodswings..and the woman asked me if i ever hit my mum ..i said that no ive never hit her and i dont intend to the only thing ive ever done is do a wee shrug with my arms if she touches me to calm me down when im in a bad mood..and the woman full on started shouting at me saying that its domestic violence and i shouldnt hit my mum or even push her..but me and my mum BOTH tried explaining to her that i didnt hit her or push her i just shrugged her off..she didnt even move from the spot when i shrugged my arms..ya no as if your shrugging like your saying "i dunno" ..thats what we are talking about..we even showed the woman wat i done..and shes threatning to show the police and she said i could be a danger to children and if i ever have any she is contacting social services straight away..and then she started saying i dont have bipolar the doctors are wrong..and that its my epilpsy medication making me see things etc... she was really rude too me like..i burst out crying as soon as i left the place, scared for my life because shes threatning to send a statement to the police ..plus contact social services if i get pregnant. My mum is fuming so is david..They both want to make a complient against her because of it..as she blew everything completely out of proportion..and then said i need anger management etc. She didnt even listen to anything i said..and anything she did listen to she twisted it round. It made me so upset i burst out crying in my aunties and infront of davids mum. Im actually terrified. :/ . Should i let my mum complain about her, or should i leave it until i see the physcarest and then tell them? xxxx |
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Lucy-May
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 4:26 pm | |
| Complain about her! they are there to listen not judge!
I was asked on wednesday had i ever hit baz and i said iv gone to.
and we discussed the feelings behind it.
and tryed to work out why i would have gone to hit him
cos its like i go into a bubble and it pops just before i do it x x x __________________________ |
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Lacey-Beths Mummy
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 4:36 pm | |
| Yeah she was really rude. No matter how many times me and my mum both explained it she just kept twisting it to make it sound like i actually did hit my mum. It really got to me..and then the fact she said she was going to send a statement to the police and if i get prengant social services etc.. And she isnt even the woman im supposed to see..the woman i usually see was off sick i think so she took me. Ive told my mum, the next im at the doctors im refusing to go back to be treated like that..and they can treat me instead..as all i do is talk to them anyway..isnt helping at all as they are so judgemental in the place and treat you like crap..stupid people! lol. xxxx |
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Lucy-May
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 4:48 pm | |
| She needs to be struck off
she should know people go to her because of there state of mind, not trying to make you into a nutjob, but they should realise behaviour like that can push someone over the edge! x x x __________________________ |
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Kayleigh
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 5:09 pm | |
| Thats really bad, some one working for mental health shouldnt speak to someone like that, its bang out of order. They are there to help people and try and work out the reasons for why people do things.
I think you should defo complain about her. What if you was really bad, like my mum, if her mental health worker said that then my mum would not of had the strength to cope with it an she wouldnt be here today xxxx __________________________ Jai O1-O2-2OO5
Alfie 12-O9-2OO6
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Rachael Elizabeth
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sat Oct 16, 2010 5:51 pm | |
| OMFG thats way out of order what she did hun id make a complient against her right away she a fucking crazy bitch. and if she gose to the cops they will luagh at the nutter she the one that need help. and plus she cant phone Ss on you if you hae kids just cuz of that :O dont let her get to you sweety make a complient against her and never go see her again xxx |
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Alysha
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Lacey-Beths Mummy
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sun Oct 17, 2010 11:12 am | |
| haha thank you hun..ill be ur number 1 patient lol.
yeah my mum was saying that if she goes to the police there is nothin they can do unless my mum actually presses charges..but my mum said there is nothing there to press charges against as i done nothing wrong..they might look into it but once they say there is nothing wrong they can procesucute her for wasting police time or somthin.
But yeah we are definatly complainin and im complainin to my doctor aswell as he was the one referred me to her. Every little thing i told her got twisted..while her colluege wrote everything down..then they said the hallucanitions i see isnt bipolar its my epilpsy medication which i have been on for 6years so i was like..so why have i only started hallocunating and seeing things now? Etc.. Grrr i dunno what the woman was playin at but i hope to god she never treats another patient like that again. Thanks girls for your support xxxx |
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xlx_Gemma_xlx
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sun Oct 17, 2010 4:55 pm | |
| she was totally out of order I would definetly complain as lucy said shes there to listen to you not judge you ! x |
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Maddie
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| | Subject: Re: Mental Health Clinic Sun Oct 17, 2010 9:19 pm | |
| i'd definitely complain! that's not professional at all! she can't be allowed to carry on working! hope your OK hun, ignore what the bint said..! x x x x x __________________________ Maddie Alice Louise Watts
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Jσrdαn Mαrlєч 23.12.O9 at 06:49am
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